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  • Someone asked:
    on August 10, 2025 10:01 pm
    Sholly am very sorry for not turning up on ur box game last time pls I don't know how I will take beg you or enter ur dm cause you av really try for me but that time I don't have much but please I will send token please sir bear with me
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on August 11, 2025 2:58 pm
      Dear anonymous. This is impressive, I will be glad if this is done. Thanks for not forgetting me.. I don't know you but God knows you and he will bless you big. Amen Thanks dear anonymous. (MY LOVE LIFE AND I)
  • Someone asked:
    on July 6, 2025 2:10 pm
    What should i really do because my wife just packed her things little by little and later informed me that she want to resume to a school. She only sent me a scrrenshots of different schools, i did not see any form. Should inform her people or i should just look. She has been asking for seperation for some time now.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 7, 2025 12:03 pm
      Dear Anonymous,If you failed to inform her family, then you should be held responsible if anything goes wrong. First of all, if she wants to go back to school, it should be a mutual agreement between both of you. She shouldn’t go behind your back to obtain a form and begin school without your knowledge. She is still your wife, you are not divorced so she should not be making major decisions without involving you.Informing her family is important. It will help you uncover the truth of the situation and give her family the opportunity to correct her if she's making any wrong moves. Don’t handle this matter alone. Involve her parents and siblings so they can guide her and help bring things under control.If it turns out she genuinely wants to further her education, then support her. Education will make her better, and it’s in both your interests to encourage personal growth as long as it’s done the right way.Yours sincerely, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on June 29, 2025 3:08 pm
    Is there any way to solve erectile dysfunction Is Viagra best solution for erectile dysfunction.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on June 29, 2025 4:02 pm
      Dear anonymous. Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be treated in various ways, and Viagra (sildenafil) is one of the most commonly used and effective treatments but it's not the only or necessarily the *best* solution for everyone.✅ Common Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction1. Medications (PDE5 inhibitors)* Viagra (sildenafil) * Cialis (tadalafil) – lasts longer (up to 36 hours) * Levitra (vardenafil) * Stendra (avanafil)– newer with fewer side effectsThese are usually safe and effective, especially when ED is caused by physical factors like poor blood flow. However, they require sexual stimulation to work and won’t cure ED, only treat it temporarily.🧠 2. Psychological Therapy* If ED is caused by stress, anxiety, depression, or relationship issues, therapy or counseling can be very effective. * Many young men experience psychogenic ED, which is mental/emotional in nature — and for them, meds may not help much without addressing the root cause.🩺 3. Lifestyle ChangesThese can dramatically improve erectile function:* Lose weight (if overweight) * Exercise regularly * Quit smoking and reduce alcohol * Improve sleep * Control diabetes, high blood pressure, or cholesterol – these affect blood flow🧪 4. Hormonal Therapy* Some men have low testosterone (low T) * A blood test can check this * If low, testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) might help — but it’s not for everyone🛠 5. Other Medical Options* Penile pumps (vacuum erection devices) * Penile implants (for severe or long-term ED) * Injections or urethral suppositories (Alprostadil)⚠ Is Viagra the Best?Viagra is:* Fast-acting (works in 30–60 minutes) * Well-researched * Effective for many menBut it may cause:* Headache * Flushing * Stuffy nose * Indigestion * Vision changesIt’s not safe for men taking nitrates (for chest pain) or those with certain heart conditions.🔍 What’s Best for You?The best solution depends on the cause of the ED:* Physical cause?Medications + lifestyle changes. * Mental cause? Therapy + confidence building. * Chronic conditions? Treat the underlying disease. * Mixed cause? A combination of treatment approaches.If you’re experiencing ED: 👉 Talk to a doctor or urologist. They’ll help identify the cause and guide you to the best treatment for your specific case.Yours sincerely [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on June 22, 2025 10:50 pm
    Good evening,sorry is late but I'hv to so I can know my stand. I entered a new relationship but since I entered it i'hv not rest. The whole scenario started the week we started the relationship which was my guy had accident as he told me on phone and showed me videos of it ,he complained of not having money to treat himself,I sent him money to treat himself,after the day he started begging me money for feeding saying no one else turned up even his family so I started sending him money after some weeks we agreed to visit him and see each other face to face,I went with food stuffs and still gave him 20k, the one that bavles me was him collected my #5,500 from my bag without telling me until I found out and ask him ,he said he will pay back which he has not up till today and again he gets angry easily. This relationship is just two months and am seriously confused because the billing from him is too much and right now I don't have a dim in my account so please 🙏 I don't really understand what kind of relationship it is because I'm getting tired and confused. Thank you .
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on June 23, 2025 9:19 am
      Dear Anonymous,The truth is, the relationship you're currently in doesn't seem healthy it’s already showing signs of being toxic. How can a grown man be so demanding of a woman he’s supposed to be supporting? Even if he's not financially strong, he shouldn't be placing the burden of his problems on your shoulders.It's only been two months, yet he’s already overwhelming you with his financial issues. At this early stage, he should be focused on building trust, not draining you emotionally or financially. A man who truly cares would try to meet your needs, not turn you into his provider.Frankly, his behavior shows a lack of maturity and responsibility. Constantly expecting you to meet his needs, especially so soon, is not a good sign. If anything, it seems like he’s more interested in what he can get from you than in building a genuine, balanced relationship.If you ask for my honest advice, I would say take a step back. Observe him from a distance and reassess the relationship. It’s better to walk away early than to stay and regret later. The way he’s acting now is a strong indication that he may not be ready or willing to take on real responsibilities in a serious relationship or future marriage.Yours sincerely, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on June 22, 2025 8:15 pm
    I married recently not less than a year...My wife doesn't want to suggest what we are going to eat. She didn't care only if I ask or figure out what we will eat and mostly when I bought the food stuff she will cook it late. How will I make her to think and suggest what we will eat everytime without me remember or reminding her?
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on June 22, 2025 10:04 pm
      Dear Anonymous,I believe you went through the talking and courting stage before eventually getting married. Ideally, that period should have helped you learn more about your partner, including things like her attitude toward cooking, going to the market, and making decisions about meals. These are important aspects to notice during courtship, especially since it's often said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, right after emotional and physical connection.Now, you’ve discovered that she doesn't enjoy cooking, doesn't like going to the market, and doesn’t know how to select food items. Instead of rushing to conclusions or considering separation, this is a moment for understanding, patience, and communication.Sit down and have a sincere, loving conversation with her. Express what you need and how important these things are to you, but do it with empathy, not pressure. Growth in marriage is a process. With time, guidance, love, and prayer, she can learn and improve in the areas you care about. Change doesn't happen overnight, but with consistent support and kindness, progress is possible.Yours sincerely, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on June 22, 2025 3:51 pm
    even though I am trying my best to ghost her but part of me I feel bad I fear she will get pregnant cuz I leant she is having affair with one of the bad boys in town I don't want her to end up single mom, Pls what can I do to win her back... She is the reason why I am building my six bed room self-contain. Pls what should I do now She has help me a lot in the beginning and I feel bad breaking up with her
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on June 24, 2025 2:14 pm
      Dear Anonymous,When it comes to love, you don't have to pity anyone. You can only advise them, but if they show no willingness to change, it's best to let them be.What you need to do now is call her, sit down, and have an honest conversation. Let her know the things she's doing wrong and observe her reaction. If she's willing to change, give her some time to show it. But if she doesn’t make any effort, step aside, no matter how good she was to you in the past.Your future should be your top priority. Stop holding on to someone who isn’t ready, so it doesn’t affect your life more than you ever expected.Marriage is much deeper than feelings alone. If either party is acting against the natural values of a relationship, it will be hard for that marriage to thrive. Focus on building a relationship with people who genuinely care and respect your vision. Most importantly, pray for her to have a change of heart.That’s my advice to you. Live your best life to the fullest.Yours sincerely, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on June 15, 2025 2:00 pm
    My girlfriend just told me she don't want to continue with this relationship.. but she is always demanding money from me... think that will change her mind now I don't know what to do if I should continue give her money or I should stop it I really love her so much, we have been dated for 4years but I don't know why she don't want to continue the relationship again
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on June 15, 2025 7:44 pm
      Dear Anonymous,You don’t have to try to impress her by constantly giving her money just to make her stay in the relationship. Love should never be forced. If someone chooses to leave, let them go. That allows you to clear your mind and heart so you can make space for someone who truly values you.Giving her money won’t make her love you. She may stay physically, but emotionally she could be elsewhere, possibly even spending what you give her on someone else who does far less for her.When your efforts are not appreciated, take a step back. Not everyone you love is meant to be your life partner. One-sided love is draining, it wastes your time, energy, and emotional peace. Give her the space she seems to want and see what happens. Sometimes, people only realize the value of what they had after it’s gone.She might be misled by someone else for now, but in time, she may recognize your worth. Unfortunately, by then, you might have moved on emotionally as well. So, let her go, and allow yourself the patience to find someone who will love you genuinely and wholeheartedly in return.Yours sincerely, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on June 11, 2025 5:58 pm
    Hello I am a young man almost finishing my degree level.I have spotted a young beautiful lady who I have a crush on since she has the qualities I look up to for my future partner. According to my plan and preparedness I see myself dealing with a serious relationship in 4 years to come. Since I am almost exiting the university, should I approach her and share my love to her and inform her that I love her in order for me not to lose her and also inform her since I love her I am now not ready for a serious relationship but after 4 years to come I will be. According to how I know her, she is also now not ready for a serious relationship.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on June 25, 2025 7:08 pm
      Dear Anonymous,Don’t be too quick to conclude if you haven’t expressed your feelings to her. No matter how convinced you are that she may not be interested, it's important to speak your mind. Share your feelings honestly, and don’t take it personally if her response isn’t what you hoped for.Sometimes, the way we express ourselves can influence how others feel. There's a popular saying: "Expression kills impression." In other words, unspoken feelings can ruin potential connections. So, no matter your fears of rejection, go ahead and express yourself. Even if it doesn't lead to a relationship, it could open the door to a meaningful friendship.Take a bold step, speak your truth, and see where it leads.Apologies for the delay in responding to your question.Yours sincerely, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on May 25, 2025 11:44 am
    Good afternoon sir and all. Thanks for this platform. Please I didn't get a message from the individual that said he wanted to reach out to me. Thank u
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on May 25, 2025 2:57 pm
      Dear anonymous.The person messaged you but you seems not responding till to him till now. He complained to me that you don't reply him to me. In order to make it clear, you can message my number number +2347030582692 let me connect the two of you together directly. thanks.Yours sincerely [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on May 19, 2025 1:38 pm
    Good afternoon thanks for your response...you can give the person my number 08116164504 because the phone I usually chat with is not mine...my phone has screen issues but he can sent me his number and I'll chat him with my friend phone pls. Thank you I appreciate
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on May 19, 2025 5:47 pm
      Dear anonymous, We will definitely deliver your message to him.