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  • Someone asked:
    on November 9, 2024 11:33 pm
    What can be done to increase sex time as a guy and to have more libido for both genders
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on November 11, 2024 12:20 am
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  • Someone asked:
    on August 21, 2024 3:01 pm
    Good day MLLAI I need your opinion on something that has been a burden to me, truly there's a saying that whatsoever is going on in your marriage or relationship, you should learn and try to resolve it amidst yourself without having third party interfere but when things kept coming in often and often that you wish you can confide in someone to call you and yet you just want things to slide all in the name of you don't want a third party. There's something about my wife, if she does something wrong or I observe that what she's doing is becoming too much of her and I seems to correct her or call her attention to that habit, any time I correct her on that thing, the next thing she does is to ignore and keep malice with me even when I'm expecting her to realize what she did or keep to correction and apologize for that which I corrected her on, this has become her usual habit now for several time and at a point I do feel reluctant on correcting her so as not to bring up issue and also trying to avoid us having this same scenario anytime I correct her. I do feel pain within me and this always makes my heart Heavy cause I'm so emotional, most especially about her well being. My mom is late that I would have discuss this situations with and my sisters will always have her backings that I'm too hard on her because they know me to be this kind of a military type person but this is really a pain in my ass. Now I want to discuss this with her mom cause I feel at easy saying it out than keeping it within me cause the more I have this in my head and heavy in my heart, it makes me feel more irritated to the situation at hand. Please I need your candid advice and opinion To the married ladies here, and married guys,how do you handle the situation I wish i can express this in voice tone
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on September 15, 2024 5:24 pm
      It seems like you're drafting a letter to offer rela Dear [Anonymous],In a situation like this, it’s important to exercise increasing patience. Your sister may not support you simply because she doesn’t want to appear as if she’s siding against her. She’s also encouraging you to approach things with gentleness. Patience is key, even when frustrations arise, especially in relationships. It’s true that sometimes women can unintentionally cause frustration, but the best approach is to calmly walk away when things escalate.At times, it’s helpful to act as if you haven’t noticed her doing something contrary to your wishes. Pretending not to be hurt or upset can allow the tension to diffuse. Once things have calmed down, you can gently call her attention to the issue and correct her with love. Constantly nagging will only cause more resistance, and instead of seeing a change, she may begin to feel that you’re overly critical.If you try to correct her too frequently, she may begin to perceive you as harsh or uncaring, and this could lead to further disconnection. Letting certain things slide occasionally allows her own conscience to guide her. Many people struggle to accept fault when it’s repeatedly pointed out, and this can lead to worsening behavior.I believe you understand what I’m saying. Remember, none of us are perfect. We’re all continuously working on bettering ourselves. Correct with love, and make time to sit down and settle matters calmly rather than engaging in nagging or conflict.I trust this advice resonates with you. Stay blessed.[My Love Life and I]
  • Someone asked:
    on August 11, 2024 12:17 pm
    Good afternoon everyone happy to you all, I actually have nothing to say I just love this platform it has been of a great help to me
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on August 11, 2024 8:57 pm
      Dear [anonymous],Your support means more to us than any silver or diamond ever could. We deeply appreciate the love and encouragement you’ve shown us. Though our journey isn’t always easy, we remain committed to doing our best for humanity, guided by our faith. Thank you for standing by us and for your invaluable support.Best regards, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on August 4, 2024 6:30 pm
    I've been having recurring dreams that feel connected to the prophecy. I'm struggling to understand the meaning behind these dreams. I feel uncertain about my path forward. I'm feeling stuck and unsure about how to move forward despite my efforts to pray and work hard. I'm seeking guidance on how to break free from the negative prophecy and create a more positive path for myself. I'm struggling to understand the spiritual significance of my dreams and how they relate to my life's purpose. I'm looking for support and guidance on how to overcome the challenges I'm facing and achieve my goals.I'm hoping to gain a deeper understanding of myself and my spiritual journey through our conversation.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on August 4, 2024 8:03 pm
      Dear [Anonymous],Thank you for reaching out. I understand you have concerns about your frequent dreams, but I'm having some difficulty fully grasping your question. Could you please provide more details about your dreams? This will help us address your concerns more effectively.In the meantime, it's important to remember that while prayer and hard work are valuable, they might not always immediately provide the solution you're seeking. It’s crucial to stay persistent and not lose hope. Additionally, consulting with a counselor can be beneficial. Sometimes, spiritual guidance from a cleric might also be helpful.For a more personalized discussion, I recommend contacting us directly on WhatsApp at +2347030582692. We can arrange a one-on-one conversation to explore your situation further and provide more tailored advice.I look forward to hearing from you.Best regards, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on July 22, 2024 6:25 pm
    My boyfriend has been ignoring my calls for some weeks now saying that I got him angry which I really don't know and I'm trying to know from him he refused telling me saying that I should not bother but he's still keeping malice to me . As it is now ,what exactly am I going to do or say
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 22, 2024 8:31 pm
      Dear [Anonymous],You need to make him understand that his attitude is causing you distress. Let him know how you feel, as being told not to worry when you already are is only making things worse for you. He should explain where you went wrong so you can adjust accordingly. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't want to see you more worried, regardless of the severity of your mistakes. It's not wrong to ask him to clarify, but if he can't identify your mistake and still blames you, it might indicate that his affection is waning. This could be a red flag, so be cautious.This is my advice—think about it.Best regards, [My Love Life and I]
  • Someone asked:
    on July 21, 2024 1:25 pm
    My question is How do I know that my boyfriend is still serious with me because he has changed.Anything I do he will take it as offense,he will not call for weeks,if you call ,he will tell you you got him angry and if he want to go out he will not go with me rather he will go with his guy and the guy girlfriend.I don't know what to do or say that will stop us from complaining all the time.Please what will I tell him or do for me to know if he still interested in me .
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 21, 2024 3:24 pm
      Dear [anonymous],If your partner doesn't talk to you for 24 hours, it's a sign something might be wrong. Someone who truly loves you will miss talking to you regularly. The nature of their complaints matters; you might be at fault if you repeatedly ignore their corrections. Men often value women who listen and adapt to constructive feedback.If the complaints are about your behavior, attire, or other reasonable matters, consider if you might be at fault. However, if the complaints are unreasonable or about rejecting your presence without cause, it might indicate they're losing feelings for you.Reflect on the situation, apologize if you realize your mistakes, and assure them you won't repeat them. Avoid arrogance or acting like you know everything, as this can harm the relationship. If they're still correcting you, it shows they care. Have a calm discussion to resolve issues amicably, ensuring it doesn't lead to a breakup.If they're not seeing anyone else, introspect and work on the relationship promptly.Best regards, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on July 14, 2024 6:23 pm
    Good evening myllai What is the meaning of someone spouse saying she regrets the marriage/relationship. And what should be the next thing the person need to do.
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 14, 2024 8:24 pm
      Dear [Anonymous],Sometimes people say things in the heat of the moment that they don't truly mean, especially when they're angry. It's important to wait and see their reaction after the fact. For some, their initial words may reflect their true feelings, but often, emotions can cloud judgment.If you find out that they really did mean what they said, it's crucial not to force them to stay in the relationship, whether it's a romantic relationship or a marriage. Allow them to make their own decisions. If there is a way to help them change their mind, do so, but avoid begging them to stay if they have already made up their mind.If you were at fault, offer a sincere apology. However, don't pressure them to remain with you after apologizing. Let them follow their heart, but ensure that you clear the air and resolve any misunderstandings that may have caused them to say those hurtful words. I hope this makes sense to you.Best regards, [My Love Life and I]
  • Someone asked:
    on July 14, 2024 11:41 am
    A friend of mine need help! He loves a girl, but the girl is friendly to him but refused his proposal, she told him, she already has a boyfriend whom she loves and whenever my friend tries to forget her, and even took some years, and date other girls, and prayed God to confirm the new girlfriend, he get dreams of the other girl who rejected him! This has confused him and doesn't know whether it is God or Devil. He has so far had three dreams this way. One of which the girl was already married to him. Thanks
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 14, 2024 12:39 pm
      Dear [Anonymous],She is acting friendly simply because she sees you as a backup in case her main boyfriend disappoints. In fact, she has been dating you in her mind. The only thing stopping her from saying yes is that she has another guy somewhere else. You always see her in your dreams because you have spent so much time with her and shared many beautiful moments together, which has made you addicted to thinking about her. According to the English dictionary, a dream is defined as "imaginary events seen in the mind while sleeping." What am I trying to convey? You have a lot of imaginary thoughts about her, which is why she frequently appears in your dreams.The person you just met hasn't captivated you as much as the lady who never said yes. She may not stress you out like the one who never said yes did, which is why you don't value her love as much. Consequently, you still dream about the one who never said yes and is also in another relationship. The dream you had about her may not mean anything; it is likely just your imagination.Try to keep some distance from her. Stop talking to her and seeing her frequently. You will eventually get yourself together, begin to forget about her gradually, and focus on your own relationship. She might be a good lady, but if you don't maintain some distance, you will always admire her, and what is happening to you now will continue to happen. I believe you understand this.Best regards, [My Love Life and I]
  • Someone asked:
    on July 9, 2024 8:36 pm
    Hi MLL&I Please I need you all to help buttress this for me and tell me what to do I got married barely 4 months, within that short period of time, I took a wrong step which was a very big mistake of my life. I have extra marital affair with an old friend, though married, after the deed, my wife get to know and at that point I know this was a bomb for me, I apologize with everything I could think of even with my life never to make such mistake again, she eventually forgive but never forget(I know it can be like that, a drop of feaces at the peak of a food plate, if it comot for face e no fit comot for mind) So ever since then, my wife never trusted me not having anything to do with the lady simply because we work I. Same place if work, and no how we would always have one or two thing to discuss base on work and work alone, I avoided her so much. But funniest thing is that, my wife has been using this against me always, she can suddenly bring up a sudden character like snobbing me and since I know she's always like that, I will try to call her attention asking her what the problem is, but all she say is "I'm fine" but today she totally change to me to the extent that since morning she never have any conversation with me,that I even have to make the meal for us to eat but she didn't Now she's threatening me to take her to hospital, that she's not feeling too well and if anything happens to her, it's on me. Also she's telling me, she would rather speak what's happening and what I did out to those that need to know should in case. Please what would you advice me to do Should I rather, explain myself to the member of my family that I'm scared of not I forming of my wrong step or let it slide cause I think they know through me that hearing from her mouth. Please Ladies(married and single)/ guys(married and single), enlighten me, what should I do
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 13, 2024 12:12 pm
      Dear [Anonymous],The deed is already done, and even though you were the one who strayed, you will feel the same way she felt. It's more painful for someone who is not cheating to find out they've been cheated on. It takes time to forget, even if they forgive. Telling family about it may help matters, or it may make things worse. They might help you appeal to her to forgive you, but some might advise her to leave you for your mistake instead of trying to settle it.In this case, I would advise you to have a one-on-one conversation with a counselor to guide you both. I strongly believe it can be perfectly settled through that, and we can offer you that here if you want. Meeting a counselor is more preferable than involving family because you don't really know their experiences or what they have in mind for you. A counselor will only do their job without bias or trying to dismantle your family.I hope you understand.Best regards, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]
  • Someone asked:
    on July 8, 2024 7:27 am
    In order not to make the story long… I caught my guy cheating on me though it was on his phone I saw ps( I collected his phone and went through it in his present) I saw he met with a girl twice and was asking for sex twice, the girl refused. We broke up and I later forgave him ,Now the problem is I can’t stop thinking about what I saw, it keeps coming to my mind and this is someone I’ve never cheated on
    • mylovelifeandi replied:
      on July 9, 2024 6:51 pm
      Dear [Anonymous],The reason it's constantly paining you that he is cheating on you is because you are not the type that likes cheating in your relationship or someone who has been cheated on. Anytime you remember that, it's normal for it to hurt you. However, if you know you can't endure it, you shouldn't have gone through his messages. Now that you have seen it all, what is your decision? Is it to stay or to leave him?If you know you can't tolerate cheating, walk away from him so that you won't be hurting yourself or forcing yourself to continue staying in a relationship that you are no longer happy with. What you need to do now is confront him and ask for his side of the story. After hearing his explanation, if you still can't accept what he says, it's best to stay away from him to avoid constant pain.When a relationship no longer brings you happiness, there's no point in staying in it. Forgive if you can, because anyone can make a mistake, and no one is above making mistakes. Anyone who is ready to change and turn a new leaf deserves to be loved, no matter the level of their mistakes. I hope you understand everything I have said.Best regards, [MY LOVE LIFE AND I]